True story of the first Passionate Idiots!
The Man who burnt all his Bridges to reach the point of no return!
~ 1993 ~
The dingy rickety bus took a sharp turn over
the precarious mountain curve and the young woman with a baby over her
shoulders, leaned over for support on her man who stood out from the crowd of
unruffled village folks that the HP Roadways bus roof was full of. This young
man’s countenance was full of grit and a positive aura with eyes that looked
very sharp and intelligent. His silhouette against the backdrop of the orange
evening sky looked significant enough for most of the other travellers who
peered at this couple that looked ‘out of place’ and too calm in this chaotic humdrum
setting.
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The young man looked at the setting sun with a curious tight smile
on his face with a determination that was enduring and eyes afire with
expectation. His face kept an eye on the large trunk that rested tied to the
roof railing with all his life’s belongings packed in it. Soon his thoughts
drifted to his last call a few hours back as a Medical Specialist at Maulana
Azad Medical College. After writing the final prescription for his last
patient, he had dropped his last few visiting cards into the waste-basket. One
card had slipped from his hands and landed on his shoe. Silently, he picked it
up and looked at it for the last time. His gaze stuck for a few moments on the
name “Dr Davinder Singh, MBBS, MD”. Promptly, he looked away and muttered under
his breath “I need to burn all my bridges”. He packed up and stepped out of his
office chin up, never to look back.
He was jolted from his stupor by the wail of
3 yr old Amrit who decided it was time for her feed. He lovingly looked at his
baby girl’s eyes as if he could see his future beckoning from within and then
his gaze shifted to his wife of five years, Dr Neelam Kaur. He looked at her
proudly for having stood rock-solid with him in these testing times. He felt
that she had lived up to her solemn marriage vows and it felt reassuring that
his pillar of strength was intact and glowing. The road was racing past him and
he caught a fleeting glance of a milestone proclaiming ‘Rajgarh – 35 Kms’.
~ 1987 ~
Davinder Singh’s thoughts drifted off to the
life-changing moment that was unique because of the solitary moment of meeting
Baba Iqbal Singh ji of Baru Sahib at a friend’s place at Delhi in 1987.
Davinder was fixated when his eyes fell on Babaji’s serene face and he gawked
when he heard him speak in an unhurried baritone voice “Aao Doctor Sahib, tusi tey badi vadi degree kamaii hai” (Come
Doctor Sir, you have earned a very high degree). Dr Davinder Singh stopped in his tracks, trying to unravel
whether there was a hidden message in this statement. He had heard a lot about
Babaji and had been trying to meet him for the past two years unsuccessfully.
Davinder folded his hands in reverence, bowed his torso and greeted him softly,
words eluding him. Babaji was speaking on the issue of “sacrifice for human
welfare” which according to him was the real definition of ‘Kalgidhar’. The old man’s words seemed much profounder than
whatever he had ever gathered about Kalgidhar.
He was pleasantly surprised with the fact that something that he had associated
with royalty and dressing up; was in fact much intense and significant and had
something to do with a unique sacrifice that the world would remember for ever.
Caught in
turmoil ever since the tragic riots of 1984, Davinder had decided to submit his
life for Sewa for service to the
downtrodden. He had opened a clinic in Tilak Vihar, the hot bed resettlement
colony of riot victims and had been serving the unfortunate widows and children
there. With his savings and influence as a Doctor, Davinder had been sending
many kids to school in the local area. Today, he felt an urge to share his
spontaneous thought of submission for selfless service to the under-privileged.
Politely with hands folded, he reached out to Babaji and whispered “Maharaj, mainu vi sewa da mauka devo, mai
is moh maaya tun door jaana chahanda haan” (Sire, please give me an
opportunity to join you in service, I wish to stay away from materialistic
world). The old man looked up askance
and said “Achha, hmmm….!” (Okay,
hmmm!). His experienced eyes were
watching Davinder’s father, Brigadier Samloke who looked crestfallen and
white-faced at this proposal from his son on whom he invested his sweat and
blood. Babaji said again “Beta teri hajey
ithey badi lodh hai. Ithon hi sewa kar” (Son, your presence is required
more here). Although Davinder said “Satbachan” (Rightly said, Sir) but
sleep eluded him that night.
Tossing and turning on bed, he was torn
between thoughts. The relaxed and powerful face of Babaji kept haunting him.
One part of him wanted to leave everything and surrender to Babaji and the
other part reminded him of his father’s efforts as well the impending marriage
in December 1988 with a sweet young Doctor that his family had chosen. Somehow
he drifted to sleep with a conviction in his mind for earning his father’s
blessings yet choosing to walk the path that he had decided upon.
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His meetings with Babaji kept on happening
and each time he fell deeper in love with the wise old man. He could not resist
sharing his mind with Babaji and felt ever peaceful with the serene words of
wisdom that he heard from him. Everytime he met Babaji, he felt him to have sensed
his father’s discomfort of seeing his son walk the path less taken in this
world. Five years passed by; Dr Davinder Singh and Dr Neelam Kaur were blessed
with a lovely daughter, Amrit Kaur in 1990 but the young man was obsessed with
his idea of joining Babaji at Baru Sahib. One fine day before Baisakhi in 1993,
he had a chance meeting with Babaji in Delhi. Gathering up all his courage and
wit, Davinder walked upto Babaji and said “Babaji,
mainu apni sewa tey jorh lovo varna mainu kidrey hor sewa layi dhakkey khaney
paingey” (Babaji, please allow me into your service or else I may have to
roam around for some other place). Suddenly
a thread broke somewhere and Babaji looked intensely at him with a wry smile
and said “Achha? Chal tu Baru Sahib
aajaa. Pandrah din reh key saara kujh dekh lai phir apaa agey di vichaar
karangey” (Is it so? Okay you come to Baru Sahib for 15 days, stay there
and see for yourself and we shall discuss after that).
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~ 2013 ~
Those
15 days never came. The Doctor couple had started with the Akal Charitable
Hospital. Gradually, they started handling the school, successfully did their
B.Ed defying all advice from their teacher colleagues and Dr Davinder Singh was
appointed as the Principal of Akal Academy, Baru Sahib. Later, he was also
appointed the Secretary of the Trust. And today he is the Director of all Akal Academies while Dr Nelam Kaur is Principal, Akal Academy, Baru Sahib.
What these two Passionate Idiots set-off, was
a wave of young people sacrificing their careers, wealth, jobs and comforts to
join the noble mission of Sant Attar Singh ji and thereafter providing an
impetus to the dreams of Baba Iqbal Singh ji seeing the light of the day with a
rural education revolution.